anonymous asked:  Should I be nervous when my boyfriend hangs out with other guys who cheat on their girlfriends?

I’ll take the high road first. Here goes… relationships are built on trust.  If you trust your boyfriend then it shouldn’t matter who he hangs out with.  If you two have an honest relationship and you can talk freely about things that bother you then you should bring it up and tell him you worry.

Now let’s be real…  Yes you can worry!  Ha HA.  My boyfriend has a good friend who cheats on his girl friend and I get uneasy every time they hang out.  Jared and I have an amazing relationship and he has never cheated but since this other guy does it and still gets away with it, when they hang out it makes me worry that his bad habits will rub off on Jared.  It doesn’t help that they both work in bars either, I hope your guy doesn’t ;)  Now like I said above, relationships are built on trust and communication.  So just talk to your dude and let him know how you feel.