Anonymous asked: Okay, but you and the Big Guy aren’t like saving yourself for marriage or anything like that, right? Or are you?

I admire you for waiting to move in together, although I do not agree with that statistic

I’m guessing this is a follow up to the question where someone asked why we didn’t live together. So thank you, for the admiration :) We’re really in no hurry that’s all.

My parents read this blog so I’m going to try and keep it PG. The Big Guy and I aren’t saving ourselves… or didn’t I should say. I was in a serious relationships before him and he was engaged before meeting me. That’s not to say we didn’t ‘wait’ we just made a thought out decision not to. At some point in my life I might have thought that waiting until marriage to have sex was the right thing to do but there’s no right or wrong in my opinion. Right or wrong is subjective and there’s so much to be said about sexual compatibility that waiting just wasn’t the right road for me.

Waiting can be right for some people and some religions and I fully respect that. I expect those people to respect my decision not to wait as well. ;) Whatever we all decide to do or not do is an adult decision and a big one, think it over, know yourself. You really can’t get much closer to a person so make it count :)