Anonymous asked: So why don’t you and the Big Guy live together?

Well as much as I’d like to disagree that I’m not in the norm, I’m afraid as a statistic I would lie there.  So as they say, there’s a higher chance of divorce and not making it to your 10th wedding anniversary if you live together before marriage. 

There are some recent studies that suggest otherwise, but only a few.  Once there are a few more, we can re-think it.  After all, the Big Guy and I have a great relationship- we lived together for the last four months almost perfectly.  I’m confident when the right time comes, we’ll do it :)